I am finally getting
around to writing about my house.
Scott has been
living, off and on, in a house owned by his grandmother since 1996. It has been
a worry to me about our future in the house. We have been allowed to paint but
not change the things we wanted to like the roof, fencing etc. I have wanted to
remodel and landscape.
Recently my sister
who was widowed in November 2012 had been living in ‘grandma’s’ house with her
husband and children since 1997. Due to the recent passing of her husband her
in-laws decided to disregard the husbands deathbed wish and included
‘grandma’s’ house in with all the farm land and sold it. My sister now has to
worry about paying rent or buying the house from the new owner or moving. She
has not had a mortgage for 15 years and all the equity in grandma’s house is no
longer hers. There is plenty of blame all around for this current situation.
Regardless of who didn’t get papers correctly signed and who lied etc after
many years my sister and her kids have nothing. I am not going to be in a
similar situation. I do not want to imagine life in 15 years and Scott passing
and I am kicked out of my home that was never really mine anyway. I would lose
all the ‘sweat equity’. I also worried that when Grandma passes away –without a
legal will which she refuses to make- all her assets will be divided between
her three children and NOT three children and ONE grandson. Even if taken to
probate court-which causes me to shudder—going to court against family—I think
the judge would say one grandson does not have rights if none of the other grandchildren
have rights. So I am sure of the future in the house is not secure.
Scott readily agreed
with me and went on the hunt for a house. You have seen outside pictures. Here
is some detail about the kitchen.
This is a picture of
the back door. This is taken before we moved in.
A picture of the flooring-I like it. The pics look like
there are scratches in the floor-there are not. They must be scuffs that have
been washed out.
This is the corner.
The stove was not installed at this time. Nor is the fridge.
A whole view of the
kitchen. The stove and fridge were placed as part of the staging of the house.
All moved in and put
together!
A closer view of my favorite corner! Everything is so handy!
I love my gas stove! I love the hanging spatulas and spoons for easy grabbing.
It is my favorite corner in the house!
This is the other corner-not my favorite-but way better than
the small orange corners I had before. I do love the refrigerator! It is very
hand having the freezer on the bottom! We were very lucky that the refrigerator
fit. We measured between the counters and did not notice that the cupboards
above were not lined up. It barely fit between the cupboards! We were very very
lucky indeed. Next to purchase is a new dishwasher. That will be a little down
the line!
That is my kitchen. I
enjoy it very much. We are using a card table for our dining purposes and will
one day get a real table with real chairs!
Here is to the
future! Which is much more secure even if I have a card table and old icky
dishwasher!
1 comment:
Oh my heck oh my heck oh my heck!!!! i really need to check in more often! I am SOOOOO excited for you and your new house! That outside picture is darling! I had no idea about your sisters situation. That is so sad, and heartbreaking. It really sucks how family can get so mean when a loved one passes away. I think you and scott are very smart in looking into your future that way. PLUS, having your own place is a million times better...somewhere that everything is yours! I'm so happy that scott is taking such good care of you! That he did all the paperwork and such for the house. You were independent long enough; it's fun to see someone take care of you! Enjoy it!!
Before reading the captions i looked at the pictures and my first thought was: i really like that corner... all those little utensil hangers look so handy! I guess i will keep digging mine out of a canister until i have a house of my own again. I will keep those hangy thingy's in the back of my mind though! ha! I also love your "crooked" made bed. At least you make it. I'm a RDH and my bed gets made once a week...the day i wash the sheets! GASP!!! Oh well, i too am imperfect! :)
Also i'm loving the dual shower heads! I'd probably never get out of that thing...especially with a 75 gallon heater! That rocks! I'm so so happy for you guys! Excited to see more pics!
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